Love is a beautiful thing, but it isn't like what we
imagine in romantic movies and marriage isn't as horrible as most of us
see in TV dramas. Both of them really do give accurate account of what
falling in-love is like.
Inspired by All Women Stalk, here are a few things no one tells you about falling in love:
1. It's terrifying:
It takes a whole lot of courage to open your heart to someone, which is
why loving someone who doesn't love you back it's the worst kind of
feeling ever. You are open to a lot of risk, cheating, disrespect and
ultimately a breakup.
2. You can love and hate someone at the same time: This
is why it takes more than love to sustain a relationship. We see
couples getting divorced but they still love each other, that's proof
enough.
3. You pick each other's habits: The person you love and loves you back rubs off some characters on you. These characters make you better or worse.
4. Love doesn't happen overnight: Forget movies, no
successful relationship begins overnight. You need to put in more effort
to make it work. This means learning and falling in love over and over
again with their good side as well as their flaws.
5. It takes more than love to work a relationship: You
both need to agree on many things to stay together. If you disagree a
lot, the love you have for each other will never be able to hold you
together.
6. You have fights about senseless things: It's not
possible to like everything about your partner, some things will
definitely annoy you and most of them will lead to fights. It doesn't
mean you would break up, you'll just be able to compromise more and get
over your fights.
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